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  1. 08-29-2007 11:00 PM #1
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    Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    This morning I got a call from the wife of my good friend Kevin. He didn't come home last night, and she wondered if I had heard from him. Things have been bad financially for them for the last few months. She was very upset that he had not come home. Filed a missing person report with the local police. I made some phone calls to those I knew that he might have contacted. Nothing.

    A couple hours later I got a call from another friend who was Kevin's former boss. They found Kevin's body, apparently committed suicide. Dammit!!! x many, many
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  2. 08-29-2007 11:13 PM #2
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Aw damn, sorry to hear that Dale. It really makes you wonder what drives someone to do that. Had a 50 year old friend take his life 3 years ago...still don't know the reason why to this day.
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  3. 08-29-2007 11:22 PM #3
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Man, I'm so sorry to hear this as well, Dale. I've had some very tough times - we all have, I suppose. But I can't imagine why anyone would choose that route, and I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. May God comfort his family and friends, including you.
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  4. 08-29-2007 11:33 PM #4
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Damn, that is terrible! Sorry to hear, and my condolences to you and everyone involved.
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  5. 08-29-2007 11:33 PM #5
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Thanks guys.

    The worst part of this is that he left a wife who has some fairly serious health issues, and a 22 year old son with Down's syndrome (severe).
    They were in a bad place before, now it is worse in every way!

    Please pray for Tammy and little Kev.
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  6. 08-30-2007 03:50 AM #6
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    I think it is the final version of saying "I cannot cope any more". Some people think it is cowardly. I think, if you are depressed and hate the life you are leading, and in addition think you are letting down those around you (even if those people don't think that) it is at least understandable. Those left behind, however, are shattered by the pain and guilt.

    If anyone ever gets close to this, ask for help from those around you.

    My thoughts are with Tammy and Kev.
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  7. 08-30-2007 04:03 AM #7
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    So sorry to hear. Very sad. Thoughts and prayers to Tammy and little Kev.
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    I am so sorry to hear that Dale and my heart goes out to Tammy and Kev.

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  9. 08-30-2007 05:50 AM #9
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Dang. Condolences Dale.
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  10. 08-30-2007 06:15 AM #10
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    I'm very sorry to hear this. Will keep these folks in thoughts and prayers.
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Dale, wish there was more that I could say other than I am sorry...if you need a shoulder, give us a call. Our house is always open to friends.... In the meantime, I will keep Tammy and Kev in my thoughts and prayers.
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    RIP.
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Sorry to hear bud.
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Very sad news indeed. My condolences to his family.

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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Awful news, and a sad loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and his family.
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Quote Originally Posted by DrHall View Post
    Thanks guys.

    The worst part of this is that he left a wife who has some fairly serious health issues, and a 22 year old son with Down's syndrome (severe).
    They were in a bad place before, now it is worse in every way!

    Please pray for Tammy and little Kev.
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Damn, that sucks

    You know I can relate though. Rough time ahead of them for sure, but wonderful time as well.
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    I'm so sorry to hear that. Sadly, depression is a disease, but it's so hard to recognize. Prayers and hope to all.
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    I'm very sorry for all involved, Dale.
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Sorry, Dale. My condolences to all affected.
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    I'm sorry to hear this.

    There a lot of people in financial trouble these days and I really think it's going to get worse
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Very sorry to hear this, losing someone to suicide is a very hard thing to take. I hope his family and friends can find peace in their lives when the time is right.
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    sorry to hear.

    my condolences to you and his family.
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Sorry bro for your loss of a friend. Prayers to the family.
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Quote Originally Posted by oldfogey View Post
    I think it is the final version of saying "I cannot cope any more". Some people think it is cowardly. I think, if you are depressed and hate the life you are leading, and in addition think you are letting down those around you (even if those people don't think that) it is at least understandable. Those left behind, however, are shattered by the pain and guilt.
    Good post! Unless we have walked in their shoes, who knows what thoughts are spinning through their minds?
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    Re: Sometimes Life Just Sucks

    Just got back last night, Dale. Sorry to hear. I'm here if you need someone to talk to. Or at.

    That's really all I can say.
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